10 Tips to Meet Colombian Women While Enjoying the Nightlife
Medellin is an incredible city with an even more incredible nightlife.
No matter if you enjoy crazy party nights in the Luxury Club or a more laid-back atmosphere in the Trilogia Live Bar, I’m sure you will have a great time and meet amazing people.
Speaking of meeting people…
The women in Medellin are known for being the most beautiful women in the world. It’s no secret that a lot of men who come to Medellin to enjoy the nightlife wouldn’t say no to a rendezvous with a beautiful local lady.
Unfortunately, most meh have no idea what it takes to woo a Colombian woman without appearing like a desperate Gringo.
Read the following ten tips before your trip to Medellin, and you will have the time of your life.
1. Get a Nice Apartment
This is so important.
You don’t want to be the kind of guy who asks a girl to come back to his hotel room after a night of dancing, talking and laughing. This is the last thing you should do. Just imagine how a woman feels when a guy asks her to come back to his hotel room. That’s not what a gentleman does.
A gentleman takes a woman to his nicely furnished apartment in a good area in Medellin. I hope you are this kind of man and I hope you know that a woman feels more appreciated and valued when she enters a beautiful apartment than when she steps into a tiny hotel room.
Why don’t you book an apartment in El Poblado? This is the kind of bachelor pad that the gorgeous ladies in Medellin appreciate.
2. Take Action or Stay Lonely
You can’t just stand in a corner and hope for the best. The local women expect you to make the first move and if you hesitate for too long, your opportunity fades away.
Colombian people are direct and straightforward. Don’t be afraid to tell her how beautiful she is and that you want to dance with her. It’s okay. She expects it from you.
3. Insider Tip: Arrive with Female Friends
Do you want to increase your value even more?
Arrive at the club or the bar with one or two female friends.
The last thing a Colombian woman wants is to date a man who is too shy to meet people and too shy to talk to her. These women want to talk to men who are social and outgoing because that’s the nature of Colombian people.
Showing up with one or two female friends proves that you are the kind of guy they are looking for. It will make you appear far more interesting.
4. Paying for Her Drink is Totally Fine
You don’t have to be afraid that she’s a gold digger, just because she expects you to pay for her drink. This is a normal part of the Colombian dating culture and men who pay for drinks are seen as gentlemen.
I know, this is totally different than in Western countries, but that’s how it is. You can’t change it and you shouldn’t try to change it. If you refuse to pay for her drink she will assume that you are not interested in her.
5. Don’t Be Afraid to Move Your Body
You want to enjoy the nightlife, right?
Then don’t stand in the corner. Move your body and show the beautiful women of Medellin that you can enjoy yourself. They want to know if you have a fun and playful attitude. And no, they don’t care if you can dance.
As long as you have fun, it doesn’t matter if you look like a professional dancer or someone who has never danced in his life.
6. Get the Support from Her Friends
In the USA and in most parts of Western Europe it is normal that guys hit the club with their male friends and girls hit the club with their female friends. In Colombia, however, it is normal that men and women party together. It’s a part of the culture.
But don’t be intimidated by that. In some way this makes it even easier to meet beautiful women while enjoying the nightlife. All you have to do is to get the support of her friends.
Talk to them. Joke around with them. Make them like you and she will like you even more.
7. Leave Your Cheesy Spanish Pickup Lines at Home
I don’t know why so many Gringos believe that cheesy pickup lines are a great way to attract Colombian women , but I’m here to tell you that they are not. They don’t work and to be honest, they are kind of disrespectful.
Instead of coming up with a creative pickup line you should try to find a way to get to know her on a deep level. Find out what she likes and what she doesn’t like. Ask her about her hopes and dreams.
8. Stay Away from Her if She Has a Boyfriend
Colombia has become safer within the past couple of years but that doesn’t mean that there aren’t some Colombian men that you should stay away from. And trying to pick up their girlfriends is the worst idea in the history of bad ideas.
Don’t start a fight because of a woman. Respect the fact that she has a boyfriend and move on. This is the smartest thing you can do.
I mean, there are millions of beautiful single women in Medellin.
9. Don’t Be Afraid to Come Closer
You took action and you made the first move. Now you’re on the dance floor. And she comes closer. She comes really, really close. Is that weird? How should you react?
Calm down and don’t worry about it. This is completely normal. South American people are not afraid of body contact and the women in Colombia are no exception.
It might be a bit weird in a club in New York but it’s normal in a club in Medellin.
10. Appreciate Her Happy and Outgoing Nature
Last but not least, appreciate the nature of Colombian women.
They are known for their outgoing nature, their inviting smiles, and their playful attitude. I don’t say that you have to be an extrovert to meet women while enjoying the nightlife. All I say is that you should appreciate the qualities of the women you meet.
A man who appreciates the qualities of Colombian women gets appreciated by Colombian women. It’s that simple.
Now search for a flight, book your apartment, and pack your suitcase. You’re about to have the time of your life.